I just need to nag more!

According to my hubby, I need to nag more. I need to nag him to go to bed earlier (among other things!)… I think I am married to the most incredible man. He is absolutely perfect for me…though I know he wouldn’t be perfect for someone else. When I think of a high maintenance woman, I think of the money she spends. He thinks of the extra time he has to spend on her, coddling her, praising her—even when he doesn’t feel like it. That’s probably why he likes me; he doesn’t have to do too much extra. Since we married in our late 30’s (oops…he turned 40 the week before we were married)…we were kinda set in our own ways. It is hard to believe that it was almost 10 years ago that we met face to face for the first time…I drove my co-workers crazy by counting down the hours until we met on post-it notes and placing them on other’s desks until my last hour of working until I left.

 

I was reminded of this because I found out that my sweetie coined the term “red flag”. That’s right. Straight from his mouth to my ears to around the world. Wait…does that mean I talk too much??? Just a caution for all those out there who even think about getting married—pray for red flags. God will give you many red flags if this is not the person for you. I didn’t have any. None. It was incredible. But then again, my sweetie is incredible also!